Hey Loves, I thought I should share some words of hope. Hope is the cousin of grief, that’s what Anne Lamott says. One of the greatest thing about hope is that we know that it’s all we need. We keep reminding ourselves that light will shine again, even if it’s only 1% of your thoughts […]Read More “…you’ll realize you’re okay.”
I am forever reminded of the story of a woman whom Jesus had an impact on. A woman who had had five men already, and still was not satisfied. A woman who had to bear the shame of her past. A woman who had to live with her deepest longing not met. We are all […]Read More We Are The Woman And We Are The Ones Holding The Stones.
I’ve always expected the church to be a healing place. Unfortunately, this hasn’t been the case for so many people. If anything, church has stripped the humanity and dignity people have. The very notion that gay people are an abomination communicates a very harmful message to the community. I do not believe that this is […]Read More Gay People Are An Abomination?
The dehumanization of gay people, especially in black communities, is appalling. The word “Istabane” or “faggot” used toward gay people has an underlying message that carries the same weight the word white people used, during apartheid (and still use) toward black people, “kaffir” This is a pure and raw dehumanization. This says: You do not […]Read More The Dehumanization Of Gay People.
People always take credit for every success they have. This is good, until failure comes along. You could have the best-selling book, have number a one song for played for decades or even have the highest success in grades, marriage, painting, drawing, photography, etc. and that could be your ONLY success. A ONE TIME SUCCESS. […]Read More You Are Not A Genius, But You Have One.
We live our lives for us, and for others – we show up for them. One thing we can be sure of is that we belong to each other. We are wired for connection, this is the reason we should always REMEMBER. Remember in this case means the opposite of dismember. SISTERING. According to Glennon […]Read More Let’s Sister And Remember.
In light of a recent suicide by a student. I recall a friend ignorantly saying; People who commit suicide are murders, and they’re going to hell with the rest. I also recall another lady saying; We all have issues, people must just learn how to deal with their sh*t without causing more pain to […]Read More Suicide And Addiction.
Often our desire to have people liking us is greater than our desire to keep nurturing ourselves. This is a sad reality. People write books to help people. This is not bad, but the burden is often felt on the other side. We are universal beings, and we are only required to bring our […]Read More It’s Not The World’s Fault That You Have Dreams.
In almost everyday I feel very disappointed in God, and I sort of say: Oh wow! You just had to sit there and watch me fail… again. In most cases, I’d work on my spirituality, and all that I feel is required from me (Which is sort of religious, but I’ll get to that.) However, […]Read More Disappointed In God: God’s Infidelity.
I used to believe in that God with anger issues, the one whom I’d secretly believe was so disgusted in the shameful thoughts I had. The worst part of the deal was that I would be dearly punished for such a mind. This is the same God I’d ask for protection in my darkest, scariest […]Read More The Liberation From An Angry God.